I like my Linux laptop that crashes once or twice a day. I like my Mastodon account where you can't really talk to anyone about anything but webdev or Rust. I like my Lenovo tablet that sometimes switches into Japanese for no reason. I like my Steam Deck that needs unique settings fiddling per game. I'm willing to put up with some friction & frustration from my computers & software. But what I can't ~abide~, and will twist my life into pretzels to avoid from my computers & software, is *malice*.

@mcc my friends all wonder why I was willing to put up with the relentless fiddling to get games to run all these years (it's much better now, thanks Valve!)

The reason is because it was only when I had set up a daily driver that wasn't Windows, that I felt like I truly owned my computer. I was no longer fighting the OS to do what I wanted; I finally had the freedom to make it my own.

@mcc I was talking with one of my friends recently about how I was so happy that I could swap fonts, themes, entire desktop environments, package managers, init systems at will. And all of my enthusiasm left my body instantly when they replied, entirely sincerely "but why would you want to do any of that?"

I love this person dearly but they use the default wallpaper.