Learn the basics of sauces from a French cooking book/course.

Make a blonde roux, for 4 pounds of cheese, add 1.5 cups of milk and 2 cups of half and half. Add in the shredded cheese saving about a pound to a pound and a half for layering. Add 4 tsp of sodium citrate. Voila you have a cheese sauce that won’t break on you that pours into the pasta easily.

I’m no chef, so look up a book if you want proper instructions, but here’s how tondo things:

  • Mix equal parts (by weight) flour and butter in a saucepan over medium heat - this is your roux, and it’ll be a bit clumpy
  • Add milk, very slowly, and mix thoroughly after each addition, consider adding nutmeg - this is a béchamel sauce
  • Add grated cheese (and sodium citrate if desired and if your cheeses won’t melt well), cut the heat, and mix until smooth - and this is a mornay sauce
  • Pour over pasta and enjoy!
  • It’s not that hard and the result will be better than anything you get from the store or eat at your aunt’s house.