I respect it. I’m not looking to be served by an outright asshole, but I’m no fan of servility or unnecessary deference. As long as he gets the job done, he’s welcome at the table any time. Hell, join us for the meal, make light conversation about the history of the place. It’d be memorable.

I’m on the other side of that.

I’m not paying to pretend be your friend I’m paying you to serve me my food get the fuck out of that chair… is my thought.

Damn dude I honestly feel bad for you if this is how you view life lol. Sounds like a pretty miserable existence ☹️
What a rude thing to say, I don’t think you feel bad for them at all, sounds like you just like being mean under the veneer of sympathy.
Damn dude I honestly feel bad for you if this is how you view life lol. Sounds like a pretty miserable existence ☹️