I think something a lot of folks don't realize is how a lot of questioning people feel trans people basically have the prerogative to say who is or isn't trans. I definitely felt that. So if you hear trans people talk and think "that doesn't sound like me, I don't fit into this narrative" then you conclude you aren't trans.

As a trans person, I try to present not a better narrative but a skepticism about narration. What matters is not what I think but what *you* choose to do with your life.