It's #Math™.. you gotta weigh each individual man you went to bed wit. The scales are Personal for every girl. Some men might weigh much heavier for one girl than for another.. there's no (Absolute Weight)

●. It's not about the amount of times you slept with one.. which makes you more of a sletje. That's still just one.. that's just a Relationship. The amount of times with one specific man might've Broken you a lot, but that's another thing

🏷 sleeping with one man a lot during a longer relationship actually makes you less of a sletje. You should count this in the sum, it's a MINUSDegree

■. It breaks Reputation.
■. It breaks a mind.
you could've easily fixed this by just having a longer relationship with a man you truly liked.. otherwise it'll cause a #Disconnect in Reputation & Mind, which only makes it more complicated

You also could've gone Celibate™

"Saving your Reputation (you don't wanna be a Sletje), only to break your mind more.. that's not having Priority. Your mind is more #VIP™.. then you go Celibate"

✔️. Then you're not cool to your girlfriends, but that's again lower in Priority than your mind and your Reputation (with men)

... you should think about Boys as your equals. But everybody feels things Differently. Boys usually do Feel™ differently from girls, but then you just be #Considerate. Because in the end, you know you'll end up with the right one.

■. would you Likey it if your Soulmate, "The One" suddenly turns out to have shot 17 men? Would you still Date him.