Bony Skeletino 💀that twinge in your heart when you’re an #adoptee and a form asks you for the names of your mother and father and you have no choice but to play their game again
like the adoptee’s birth certificate itself, every document stating our *legally constructed* parentage conflates this status with—and thus denigrates and erases—our actual parentage. it’s a dehumanizing lie. 🥚