Am I crazy or can you not be a lesbian if you’re non-binary

You absolutely can be, and there is a rich history of gender diversity in lesbian spaces

That’s great but can you maybe explain in more detail for us dumdums?

Because, as far as I know, lesbian means “woman who loves women” and non-binary means “neither man nor woman”. So how can someone be a woman who loves women if they’re not a woman?

AFAB, nonbinary person who identities as non-binary because they are fluid. I.e. sometimes a woman, sometimes another gender. Dating a woman.

I guess if we’re getting technical, they’re only a lesbian sometimes. But we don’t have a term for truly NB dating a woman. And they don’t self identify as male so they’re not hetero. So lesbian it is.

See? Easy peasy.

But this is why I stopped trying to make logical sense of it. I don’t need to understand that level of detail about a stranger, and I didn’t care who they’re fuckin unless it’s me.

It’s best to identify as “lesbian” if it’s close to your situation, because there are a lot more brunches that way.

wait, the lesbians get more brunches than us bis? when did this happen

bi erasure, obviously

i just need to know if i need to pick up some gender fluid to get more brunch