What things that many consider a turn on are a turn off to you?

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What things that many consider a turn on are a turn off to you? - Lemmy.World

I honestly see twerking as a turn off but it seems like so many NSFW short videos are nothing but twerking.

Fauxcest and the story bits about catching each other cheating. How common both are in porn these days really alienates me from my fellow freaks.
We agree with the other commenter, anything incest related is an instant turn off on what could sometimes be great porn/erotica. Also, as an aesthetic, we dislike the bimbo vibe, just doesn’t resonate (also wtf with the loooong nails ?!)
Hell, just the word Daddy is an instant mood killer for me.
Fuck, if someone called me “Daddy”, think I’d deflate instantly.
In a deep voice Yes father
Anal. Even just wearing a plug.
I don’t think we can be friends!
Massive butts/thighs

Big breasts. Anything bigger than a good C cup is just unnecessary. They cause back problems and just get in the way.

I had a great relationship with a girl who was a natural DD (gifted). Maybe I got bored of breasts after that. I’m a leg/thigh/butt man now.

For me, large breasts are fine. It’s when you can tell they are bolted on I’m just not interested.
A woman cannot be flat enough for me. My favorite porn star is Anne Howe.
I can’t stand porn sounds half the time. Too much “Ooooo!” and “Oh Baby” and sucking in the breath. Give me a good hard porn that has natural sounds. I don’t need the over-agressive talking.
I fooled around with a woman who made porn sex sounds. It was as much of a turn off in real life as in porn, although I somehow powered through anyway. 😅

Unpopular opinion time, hehe.

When in person these will end my interest; perfume (rather smell you than whatever THAT is), makeup (rather see you than your art skills), and augmented breasts. There are other things like personality but I doubt a bad attitude is a turn on for anyone

No impact on friendships but can be a no-go on dates.

For me it’s really a matter of confidence. NEEDING perfume and makeup to feel comfortable is a turn off. NOT NEEDING them is actually a bit of a turn on, and “imperfections” are very attractive. Doing makeup out of enjoyment is fine, just use high quality stuff so it doesn’t smell. Most perfumes and colognes smell terrible to me to the point where i can’t focus and honestly, BO is hot.

This makes sense. I had a friend in middle school who said it’s very important to only occasionally wear makeup because otherwise you will start thinking you look bad without it, instead of thinking you good with it.
Duplicate post, sorry

I’m kinda with you on the twerking, I don’t like the twitchy/jerky movements that are in so many dances now at all. And I mean not just in a turn on-turn off way, even in technically spectacular dances I see it and hate it.

Love perfume, you know my husband said he does not like it but for years thought I smelled so good just from shampoo or something, refused to believe it was the perfume. I like it in the same way I like nice clothes or doing my hair. Makeup is just creativity to me, I don’t wear it much anymore but appreciate it a lot.

I will turn the question on its head and say that while I do absolutely prefer sexually dominant guys, I quite like bi guys, think a lot of straight women don’t, or at least not openly, but it’s a preference for me, if I can get that all in one package it’s great.

I dislike when guys want me to be shorter than them, even when I am, they have to like tall ladies.

Maybe this is all just preference for Dom guys though - I like when they can confidently take on someone they consider strong. When it’s not just relying on physical power, more on mental control.

Strap-on anything is an immediate turn off, strong negative reaction to seeing them, no idea if that is uncommon or common reaction though.

Lip filler. I prefer women with natural lips.

I hate those “caption” posts.

i.e. “You thought she was away to the gym but she’s actually taking a pounding from your best friends big cock”

I find it a bit cringe lol

Lingerie. I’m not even sure I can explain why, I guess just about anything else is sexier.
I think it depends on the lingerie but I can generally agree
Feet. That cross eyed thing. Soaked genitals.

1.Oversized boobs that are clearly artificial.

2.Being anorexic (too spooky for me).

3.Freshly 18 (huge age gap)

Someone being a cruel idiot to their partner. I get that someone “owning” you and all can be hot, but something about cruelty pisses me off.