Old gods were terribly mean
It’s actually really interesting that both
“Hades kidnapped and basically coerced a girl into becoming his wife”
and
“Persephone conspired to elope with her boytoy, using legalistic maneuvering to ensure she could stay with her true love against the wishes of her family”
are equally ancient interpretations.
… and that “This MIGHT be holsum” is one of the most positive relationships in the whole Greek pantheon.