@scottwilson I can send you invites to the #Durare #XMPP server (durare.org) if you like. It's operated from India and hosted on Hetzner, so not necessarily the best fit, but it doesn't matter that much and I'm part of the community running it so you can contact me directly if any tech issues come up 🧑‍🔧

@joinjabber that @debacle mentioned is a good resource for finding out about XMPP and picking a server and of course there's the official @xmpp