I’d definitely believe the top two. My oldest sister seems to only date dudes that end up beating her, but my other sister has been put in the hospital by every woman she’s dated. I know it’s slim pickings, and rural Midwest lesbians have a lot to be mad about, but stop taking it out on each other! There are more deserving targets.

I’m getting the sense that the situation with your sisters is less whatever this thread is about and more genetics & culture.

What’s your situation like?

How is getting beaten fucking genetic
Because maybe the personality type you’ve inherited through genes predisposes you to be attracted to abusive partners.