I’d definitely believe the top two. My oldest sister seems to only date dudes that end up beating her, but my other sister has been put in the hospital by every woman she’s dated. I know it’s slim pickings, and rural Midwest lesbians have a lot to be mad about, but stop taking it out on each other! There are more deserving targets.

I’m getting the sense that the situation with your sisters is less whatever this thread is about and more genetics & culture.

What’s your situation like?

more genetics & culture.

Whatcha trying to say there?

I was saying that it may be the community culture or the household culture. Like some places have the Macho culture where a man can never be wrong and the woman has to support him no matter what, accept him even if he beats you because honey he actually loves you.

By genetics I meant if your family had a history of being attracted to abusive partners.

I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt but your initial comment was phrased in such a way as to dog-whistle racist eugenics talking points, in case you’re wondering why people are hostile here. As for your last sentence I don’t believe genetics works like that, which contributes to why you’re giving off vaguely dog-whistle-y vibes.
Yeah, that’s fair.