@DTJackson When I was 15 or 16, I went on my first date. It was a lifetime ago. The boy was driving us to a movie when a cop pulled him over. I was nervous so giggled a little. I don’t think he got a ticket but he was visibly angry with me and drove me back home. I felt shame but didn’t know why.
I saw him on Twitter a couple of times and realized he’s a vulnerable (covert) narcissist like Mom n sis easily offended. My shame was an inability to soothe them like they expected.