@AndrogynousWater i use she /they but if I’m wanting them to use they/them. I just say, ‘it’s they/them’ if they use she her and if they say what I just expand a bit and explain my pronouns are they /them. Usually people are fine and just move on.
@Charlydork Totally, I take a direct approach when it feels appropriate too. Wondering if there’s something fun or snappy people say if it’s a little quick interaction with someone never to be seen again. I just wanna feel visible and maybe more people need to know it’s okay 
@AndrogynousWater ahhh okay i see - I’m going to ask pals and see