Been at the library a lot this summer holidays, just got back now and thinking about malls and flea markets and libraries

Y'know how you've got that little crow inside you that enjoys the act of Going Somewhere, getting Bags of Shinies, then coming home and examining those shinies, and sometimes you gotta give the crow a treat?

🐹 Man, you're so consumerist-minded, you gotta let go of the -
🦝 Shut up you have a crow as well, anyway as I was saying, the act of going out, getting a large amount of Things and bringing them back satisfies the crow. It gives the crow warm feelings of abundance and security, and the mall and the online shopping apps can feed that crow but at the expense of your wallet.

Daughter just filled up two big canvas bags of library books. Overflowing. Swollen. Our rule is she can take as many as she can carry, and we always end up breaking it. Bulging, heavy sacks of shinies.

If you've got a hole in you that could be filled by getting heavy bags of shinies, the library keeps that crow FED. The crow doesn't know the difference between shopping and borrowing, the heavy bags taste the same, it just cares about Bags Of Stuff, it's the same feeling.

A Little Adventure to Go Somewhere and Acquire Stuff. It fills the same hole.

Except the library ALSO feeds the beast that enjoys REMOVING stacks of things from the house and going "Ahh, that's better, bit more room in here now," because after a couple of weeks you've got to take them back

...and get more

You don't have to repress the must-obtain-shinies crow in you. We LIKE accumulating stuff, obtaining nice things, it's in our nature. But you can vary the crow's diet. A bulging sack of lovely pretty new books from the library, a boot full of castoffs from the flea market and a factory-shiny new hunk of tat off Amazon will all taste the same to the crow, but at different levels of harm to the wallet and world. It's okay to give the crow a little treat
@ifixcoinops I find a flea market or Ebay bargain tickles my crow's pickle more than buying one of 500 identical items off the shelf at retail. Feels more like a win.
@woe2you oh aye, there's gotta be the hunt, the patience, the pounce, the victory. That's part of a crow's balanced diet
@woe2you @ifixcoinops I find my crow likes either of these two best of all:
- Ex-display items which have never been touched and might just be a bit sunbleached
- Professional equipment which is supposed to cost many more coins than I end up paying
@lunarloony @woe2you heck late last year I got a job lot of eleven display model Sony ereaders and have been putting in new batteries and distributing them round the neighbourhood, the crow's loving that
@ifixcoinops I have been enjoying reading about the... er, readers... and do occasionally have a peek on eBay. (I do like my little Kobo but it has no physical buttons)
@ifixcoinops I do love it when money doesn't have to change hands, but if so, I like if it's only a little money.... (and so glad your daughter loves the library)
@ifixcoinops
I literally pick up “shinies” off the ground every where I go… this includes rocks shells and literal shiny objects… my husband met a real life magpie bird this year… and now he’s calling me a magpie 😹(I also do the library collecting and flea market stuff… but that’s now limited to “useful items” because I don’t have room at our apartment! 😹)
@ifixcoinops thank goodness the library is a loaning and return system because I would love to keep every book I see!!!😹
@ifixcoinops for real, you don't have to *buy* the shinies hehe
@ifixcoinops I'm making a lot more use of Freecycle and the town swap shed this past year. The crow enjoys both of those.
@ifixcoinops going for a walk and hunting for curb finds/cool trash is also a great way to "get your steps" while also bringing home rusty pliers and forgotten television sets