the last thing I want my kids doing is looking after me. This is a direct result of the exaggeration of how bad the care system is. Sure, it’s not ideal, but nothing is. #agedcare https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-07-03/what-it-is-like-being-in-sandwich-generation-parent-dementia/105480046?utm_source=abc_news_app&utm_medium=content_shared&utm_campaign=abc_news_app&utm_content=other
When Bec's mum was diagnosed with dementia, she joined the 'sandwich generation'

The mental load of juggling three young kids, while running a household with a husband who works long hours, and now caring for her mum with dementia, is "relentless", says Bec Nolan.

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@andyjennings
I don't know how bad it is now.
My recent visits to #Australia n #AgedCareFacilities have shown a lot of floor staff doing little. Is good.

However it looked fine, before the RC, to me until I discovered my dad was being treated worse than a dog.

It is pretty much the same exploitative companies and managers running things now.
They are highly skilled in cover-ups, manipulation and letting abuse and neglect continue in pursuit of profits.

But, as you say, nothing is perfect.

@skua @andyjennings - the entry of for-profit providers changed everything, even for the not-for-profit providers. Services were pared down - much to the government's delight if it meant they could keep funding levels lower. The level of professional staff support - RNs and the like - was made interchangable with ancilliary staff for the same amount of money or less.

I dread the possibility of going into an aged care facility - but sometimes we have no choice.

@DjityDjity @andyjennings
AIUI large changes after Royal Commission reported in 2021.

Are you refering to changes made by #JohnHoward etc?

Link has what should now be in place.

(A failure to provide adequate registered nurse hours resulted in a vulnerable parent of mine being stupified, weakened and falling multiple times due to a new medication. So no confidence in facility managers. & doubts about the public servants meant to be ensuring quality. cf #RoboDebt.)

https://www.health.gov.au/resources/publications/247-registered-nurses-in-aged-care-homes?language=en

@skua @andyjennings - yes, the changes do go back to John Howard's ascendancy.