@junebug This drives vee bats too.
I'm not naive, I've spent an entire life spending 60% of every waking moment thinking about what can go wrong and struggling to have backups for backups for backups and this has given vee a shred of security in knowing I'm probably the most prepared mofo in the room if something does go bad.
Let vee have what little optimism that provides.
People who seem to be a walking encyclopedia of everything negative about everything but will shrug and go "I haven't experienced it so I don't know" when you try to point out positives fit in this too.
@trysdyn yeah like. Tbh I get when people have overcome with anxiety or spend a ton of time thinking about how bad things are. I get all the possible motivations I get all the brainweirds
what gets to me is when there's an attitude of "and see, this means I know things you are just too dumb or sheltered or whatever to admit and that makes me so much smarter and more aware then you" nah. Go fuck yourself