Today I was reminded that old online chats offered context awareness for the people online: you knew you won't be a bother to a friend who has a smiley flower as a status; and you knew you might not be getting a quick reply from someone who's Away.

Today I don't even know if my friends are online or not. The messenger apps make the assumption that everyone is online, and if not, they will receive a push notification, and will reply to you as soon as possible. But this assumption is barely true. I bet it makes lives harder, especially for ND people

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@nina_kali_nina i'm a somewhat dedicated invisible mode user since the last millennia 🫥
@jasmine except that one day in March?
@nina_kali_nina yes in 2022, and every day since then 🥰