I want a boyfriend, but I feel like I don't deserve to have one, and I keep alternating between those two thoughts which is making me feel confused. Is this normal?

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I want a boyfriend, but I feel like I don't deserve to have one, and I keep alternating between those two thoughts which is making me feel confused. Is this normal? - Lemmy Cafe

My old boyfriend died in 2015 (from diabetes) and I’ve been single since then

Let’s keep it simple. Are you doing enough in regards to personal hygiene?

If you are making the effort of washing yourself every day and keeping clean, then you deserve some appreciation.

If you aren’t, then start with that. Raise yourself up so that you can think “I’m fresh as fuck and I deserve some lovin’ for it!” and you’ll be good to go.