@cmconseils Wow! You're getting a lot of negative comments over this post.

I have considered a vasectomy, but my wife and I are both a bit paranoid about pregnancy and even with a vasectomy, we would probably still use a condom. So, what is the point of the operation.

Maybe it is overkill, but we do not want kids.

@my_actual_brain @cmconseils Defense in depth? Also, vasectomy has a significantly lower failure rate than condoms. It's cheaper over time, too :)

I'm another for whom it's been 100% effective. I supported one partner through an abortion before that, and have caused no pregnancies since.

I never wanted kids either, so it was a worthwhile investment in peace of mind.

@KatS @my_actual_brain @cmconseils

After three Kids it was planning for future motivating my wife and me. Facts:

For my wife: risky surgery with weeks and weeks or even months of suffering

For me: getting my act together mentally, 10 minutes of feeling shitty, a weekend of relaxation

Since those thirty years I've never ever regretted this step. I even wondered why not earlier.

Only machos are afraid. Real men are not and do this for their wives as a minimum