Stop wasting time in comfortably broken relationships. Listen, when God wants to bless you, He sends you relationships. When the devil wants to hurt you he sends relationships.
Make sure you are keeping the right relationships in your life. Get rid of the ones that are only connected to the expired version of you.
One of the most valuable lessons I've learned in life and it's shifts is that God connects you with people who understand your "not yet" There are tons of folks in your life who embrace and affirm who you are now, because where you are now does not intimidate them or make a demand in them to change the dynamics of interactions with you. They are content where you are and where they are in the relationship.
What you will discover is that once God shifts you into your "not yet" some will have difficulty adapting. For some, it will bring out negative feelings about you that they have suppressed. For others, it will be a revaluation of their own inability to go where God is taking you. You cannot lose sleep when this happens. I was reminded of this true story.
When a space shuttle flew into outer space, it was launched with enough energy and fuel to get it to its destination.
When you are chosen to do great things by God, some people in your life are designed to fall out at a certain altitude. It doesn't mean that they are bad people. It just reveals the fact that they were not designed to fly into orbit.