trans inclusive hater rule

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trans inclusive hater rule - Lemmy.World

Lemmy

They might be a hater, but they’re not a bigot. Respect

Basically me. I cannot stand Elliots acting personally but like I like/dislike a lot of stuff no one else does so whatever. Always disliked him since the Juno days. But I dislike HIM.

TERF haters are dumb as fuck. What’s the point of hating someone if you’re hating something you made up about them? Congratulations, you’re deluded. Might as well hate Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind because it had a cameo from Jeffrey Epstein, you lobotomized twatwaffle.

Wait what?

What’s the point of hating […] if you’re hating something you made up […] ?

Might as well hate Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind because it had a cameo from Jeffrey Epstein

My text wasn’t super clear but I was saying that people who make shit up about things and then hate it for that reason are silly. I then made up a ridiculous thing about a great movie. A movie I refuse to ever watch again but still.

Oh, I thought you meant the movie actually had an Epstein cameo and I somehow never noticed lol
You might have. Maybe you forgot

A movie I refuse to ever watch again but still.

Oh, I’m not the only one who can’t watch Eternal Sunshine again? Used to be one of my favorite films…

Crazy how things can be tied so strongly to memories… Particularly when it’s a poignant piece of art that is far too relatable.

Immediately after finishing it I knew I’d never watch it again. Same thing with We Need To Talk About Kevin or Dear Zachary. That last one is a documentary about where I’m from but still. Somethings you only need to see once. Anything more than that is pain. That’s how Eternal Sunshine came out for me. Beautiful in its tragedy but the beauty comes from the pain. I deal with my own stuff as is. Watching movies like that a second time causes me so much anxiety and grief.
I’ve watched it countless times… Like I said, used to be a favorite. Then my brain decided to attach it to the memory of someone that I miss dearly…

That’s fair. Sorry, my brain is misfiring a lot this morning on stuff I’m mis-reading. That was Weekend for me…

Sending nothing but love your way <3

“The act of killing” plays that role for me. The most amazing movie I have ever watched, but I’ve just been able to watch it a handful of times. Haven’t gathered the courage to watch the follow up, “The look of silence” yet.
I watched Dear Zachary twice. No tears.
Then you’re dead inside.
I think it’s because they’re humans. I always cry at the ends of Iron Giant and A.I.
Although, it might bother me now, as a father. I have finally acquired the ability of empathy in my late thirties.
Fucking Kevin Spacey. So many great movies I just can’t watch anymore.

For real. Something that blew my mind though… years after the Spacey thing I finally saw the face of the person who made the accusations against him first.

When I first heard the accusations I had no idea who the person was.

But after watching Star Trek: Discovery for a couple years, I was floored to find out that Stamets was the one who called out Kevin Spacey. My favorite Trek character called out my former favorite actor and ruined his career.

Spacey ruined his own career.

Fucking Pay it Forward got ruined to by the way. I just said pay it forward to someone earlier today out of habit

You’re aight if you don’t click the disambiguation link

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_it_forward

I think we can keep Pay It Forward, I don’t think I knew it was a film much less an abuser-starring film.

The concept is old, but the particular phrase may have been coined by Lily Hardy Hammond in her 1916 book In the Garden of Delight. Robert Heinlein’s 1951 novel Between Planets helped popularize the phrase.

Pay it forward - Wikipedia

I haven’t seen a lot of his movies, but I thought his acting in the first season of Umbrella Academy was really good. To each their own I guess.
They were basically just an unsure outcast questioning who they could be.
Bigotry would just dilute the hate.

Reminds me of that post about two lesbians kissing on a subway in NY and this dude says, 'Man can’t yall keep that nasty shit at home?"

And when we sees people are staring at him, he goes, “OH no I’m not homophobic, I’m just a hater.”

I feel like he is getting a bad rap here. I mean, he had a gender change to convincingly play female characters in Juno, Inception, and Hard Candy, among others.

Talk about a method actor, let’s see Christain Bale do that…

oh weird, I’m somewhat opposite – not a fan of the person themselves and fame circle surrounding them, but I think they’re a decent actor with a good sense of subtlety and pathos.

Same with Tom Cruise. Could not give a shit about the person IRL, but very good actor.

Shit I find Tom Cruise to be an abhorrent person, but I do love me some Mission Impossible.

Shit I find Tom Cruise to be an abhorrent person,

How is he an abhorrent person? I mean, beyond shilling for Scientology, which is itself abhorrent…

Every person I’ve ever heard describe Tom Cruise as a person has only had nice things to say about him. Like to a weird/suspicious extent even lol.

Google “katie holmes disposable cellphone”
He’s… had a divorce? I guess that’s not great but hardly enough to make him look like an asshole
How Katie Holmes outwitted Tom Cruise: the roundup

The way Katie Holmes carefully plotted her split from Tom Cruise could easily be a Hollywood thriller.

Yahoo Entertainment
I dont think you googled the right thing. Try the parts where he refused to have his then wife under control by refusing to let her freely use her cellphone

I don’t think you googled the right thing I literally searched using the keywords you said to… Didn’t use google though. next time can you just say the message you want to convey?

He’s a poster child for a literal cult. The Mrs and I make a point of never watching or paying for anything he’s in. If everyone did that, no director would cast him and he might just leave the cult (or no longer be as powerful a figure).
He literally has slaves working for him.
I know they/them seems inclusive, but Page goes by he/him. He’s trans not non-binary
sorry. I think I was referring to his work back before he transitioned too
He also uses they 👍
Usually you would go with the current pronouns too even when talking about anything happening before the outing. But apparently they isn’t wrong anyway, I was mistaken
because they were always the same person on the inside, right I get. It’s a bit of minefield, but I’m slowly getting there

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Open minds, compassionate hearts, and willingness to change are all that is needed. Everything else just takes time!

Every source I find has him saying he uses he/they, so they is perfectly acceptable
Ah, okay, then I’m mistaken. I just saw that Wikipedia goes by he/him.
Singular “they” has been valid English for centuries anyway.
…yeah, f*ck that: collectives are mindless automatons, individuals with agency are singular…

i don’t have anything to say about the movie since i have no idea what it’s about.

but i will say, i SO want elliot to do another series of gaycation because i loved it so much and it’d be great to revisit or plan out more places (except sadly it might be even more dangerous with the increase in homophobia around the world :()

You don’t know what The Odyssey is about?
There’s probably a lot of people that don’t know what it’s about. Is this your attempt to help them understand?
When I ask a question it’s an attempt for me to understand, bro. You should know that having just asked one yourself.
i know what the novel is about i don’t know anything about christopher nolan or if it’s the same one.
Yeah, my understanding is he is trying to adapt Homer’s epic poem to film.
That definitely feels a bit big headed but hey, it’s Nolan.

If the Coen brothers can do it in the American south then Nolan can do it.

O’ Brother where art thou

I saw a family of seven pack into one after taking photos at a viewpoint once.
After Trailer Park Boys is all downhill for him.
If you go to the store and get me two bags of chicken chips and the rest in pepperoni.
The casting for this movie is a disaster in general. Zendaya can’t act for shit unless she’s playing a deeply sarcastic character who rolls their eyes every 40 seconds. She was astonishingly bad in Dune.
She gives Disney Channel Original Movie energy in everything she’s in. Not a good fit for Dune or Odyssey.

I now am a believer in the many worlds hypothesis. Clearly we have seen very different movies.

I loved her in Dune. She made the character very believable.

Fair enough. The casting of those movies made them hard to enjoy. Chalamet is almost as irritating lol.