@JustinMac84 @thejessiekirk
Honestly, I thought you were likely a troll but with an actual posting history I thought I might as well try to assume best intentions. I'm truly happy it worked out. π
To be frank that is why its toxic over here. Vulnerable groups spend their lives under the constant stress of their identity, the core of who they are, being the target. Trolls pretending to be ignorant, slurs, generalizations, harassment, the list goes on. The 'I just want to learn' is a frighteningly common troll tactic. It's not healthy to be so reactionary but it comes from a lifetime experience of trauma and pain.* It's hard to not lash out. Unfortunately, it makes it difficult for those who do want to learn.
Thank you for hearing me out and listening. It means a lot that someone actually listened.
* Tbh my initial reaction to your post was anger. I had to calm it down before replying as I didn't want it to get the better of me.