Being an abrasive asshole to everyone around you and expecting to move just as smoothly through the world is only a reasonable expectation if you're a white man.
so just don't, white men. Normalize saying things like "I hadn't considered that" and "you have a good point" and practice accepting that you aren't the smartest person in every room. Consider that what other people are saying might have merit before opening your fucking mouth. Pay fucking attention to your ego.