Hey, i have no special knowledge, and limited time this evening -- but i understand a little about your situation/ circumstances, so want to help get a conversation started
EU links:
EU immigration portal -- https://immigration-portal.ec.europa.eu/index_en
Circumstances of eligibility -- https://immigration-portal.ec.europa.eu/general-information/what-category-do-i-fit_en
Migration & Asylum -- https://home-affairs.ec.europa.eu/policies/migration-and-asylum_en
Asylum -- https://home-affairs.ec.europa.eu/policies/migration-and-asylum/asylum-eu_en
Some local links (London, UK)
https://www.gov.uk/find-an-immigration-adviser
https://www.gov.uk/find-an-immigration-adviser/what-advisers-can-do
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/immigration/get-help/get-immigration-advice/