Realizing more and more that the abelist terms people use are meant to be euphemisms more-or-less because if you used the word that accurately described the behavior, you'd be making (gasp!) a moral judgement and nothing is worse to Americans than judging someone based on the morality of their behavior. So instead we use marginalized people's diagnoses as descriptors for bad behavior. Cause who cares about *those* people??

It's literally more acceptable to be abelist than it is to move through your life guided by morals. Incredible.