Reminder: Just because someone is posting on social media a lot, visibly doing projects, and otherwise looks like they're living their best life

1) Does not mean they are ok - social media is often a distraction and an escape valve

2) Does not mean they are ignoring you - they may be overwhelmed and incapable of handling messages

Yes this is my way of explaining why I haven't replied to your message
@jonty
To the contrary, my social media presence has been scarcer this past year, since I've been much better
@ScriptFanix @jonty yeah I noticed this about myself. I really like fedi and have fun chatting to the creatures here, but when things are going well, I don't have any time to be here despite enjoying it

When things are overwhelming, or slow, or bad, then I spend all the time I can in here