Sharkitty 
yo my childhood friend who always talked shit about fedi without really trying said he might want to actually give it a shot now OwO I'm nyot sure what instance I could recommend to him 
Stupeflo@sharkitty if he started HRT lately, mayber eldritch.cafe
@stupeflo my friend is cis, but now that I think of it, he might want a French speaking instance, so, if you have good suggestions it's very welcome :3
@sharkitty hum. Maybe piaille.fr then. Unless he as specufic interests…