@ben for what it's worth, nearly every Dutch IT posting will sponsor. Other technical roles are quite likely as well under the kennismigrant (knowledge migrants) visa. Ind.nl has help in English on what qualifies.
While the Netherlands has its own problems and plenty of RW jerks like everywhere, the laws have been progressive around sex and gender since about 1811, give or take.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBTQ_rights_in_the_Netherlands
I live in the Netherlands and can confirm. Also my company will sponsor visas, but not moving costs. We also have several trans/non-binary employees. Company culture is good.
@mrs_skelli i think moving costs is a hard sell here. I had some help on that front, but many companies consider the 30% rule as the way the move is compensated.
As I tell people who are considering moving abroad, "We have Ikea here in the NL. Get rid of anything you can't carry." That was even before some might consider moving an emergency.
@ben This is a fast moving and contentious topic, but as far as I can tell it makes more sense for US-based trans folks to move to a different state. It’s still very hard but 100x easier than emigration with similar benefits.
EDIT: @trans_rescue say trans folks should prepare to leave the US.