#FWakeShock #FWakeExLovers
#ChoiceMarriageHonesty
First off, I know people love complaining about their ex partner. My god, since age 10 in USA I noticed how much people do it. It's major part of many films, TV shows, and I've traveled so much and heard so many conversations from strangers.
But then it's the lack of recognition. the way everyone responding to this acts like:
1. Human beings don't go to war and terrorize each other over religions.
2. Human beings don't attack each other over skin color
3. The drunk driving harming strangers
4. The gun shooting accidents, family murder-suicides
5. Homeless people, drug overdoses, deaths with no medical care, pandemic aggression of people gleefully spreading disease
People act so SHOCKED that in romance human beings don't know how to communicate and love one another. And ignore all the evidence around them of how shitty love and compassion education are.
Do you really not see how people are living in 2024 in Palestine? Ukraine? Russia? Syria? Sudan? Iran? Afghanistan?
People have such low standards for society at large / the whole Earth behavior, and they still act shocked over how they treat their ex-lovers.
Have none of your friends or co-workers gotten divorced and had child custody battles? How horrible people treat each other? Has nobody you known grown up with parents who got divorced?
The part that eats away at me the most is working with people at jobs and or being a customer of a job where clearly the boss is dehumanizing the workers. And they go to this job 50 or 60 hours a week and it's clearly an abusive relationship of manipulation and power against them. But hey, your ex-lover hate.
That's what will make the front page of social media. A 10 minute exchange from a lover you haven't talk to in years.
Director Jeff Baena committed suicide this weekend. Age 47, had a respectable life, but killed himself. And people act like human beings are good at love and compassion.
I swear people will settle for the worst garbage films, TV shows, and religion clergy. #ToxicClergy
People are so AFRAID of love and compassion, they go to war. THINK ABOUT IT! Clergy and religion SUCK!
I have lived with 4 women in my life, starting at age 18 after graduating high school with my first lover.
I think about the women I lived with all the time. If I see a reference to a film we watched together, I have memories of talking about that film together. If I cook a favorite dish we both liked, I have memories of our being together. It is part of the fabric and experience of my life. Just like jobs I have worked at where I traveled to specific cities for work, learned certain skills.
Somebody starts talking about Windows 98, I have memories of working in Bellevue Washington for Microsoft co-founder and doing beta testing and installing it.
The very idea that a "lover" lives "rent-free in your head" is so stupid. That is MY LIFE, my MEMORIES, my EXPERIENCE in life. The first time I ever went to Costco was with my first wife Tristan, I still have those memories.
"The Costco warehouse in Issaquah, Washington opened on September 9, 1994"
When I see a Costco, I still think of Issaquah, Washington and Snoqualmie Pass. Whenever I hear of Boeing airlines, I still think of the Renton factory and the consulting gig where I was asked to give them advice on Microsoft Exchange Server.
People act like they 'delete" ex-lovers from their brain is one of the dumbest popular ideas I encounter. The people I met and interacted with in life SHAPED my life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3LFML_pxlY
When I left my home and my family
I was no more than a boy
In the company of strangers
In the quiet of the railway station
Running scared
Laying low, seeking out the poorer quarters
Where the ragged people go
Looking for the places only they would know
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Some of the strongest memories of lovers is sickness or weddings and funerals. When I see someone sick or someone dies or gets married, I think of the weddings and funerals and medical experiences I had with someone.
Lovers who got sick such as vomited when we were together, etc. Those are core memories.
I really don't get why so many people think hate is such a core part of their identity and purpose in life. Hating on people they used to love.
When you see manic drivers who are self-centered and in egomania driving their car you really wonder - are these the people on social media whose greatest focus is who they hate? Their ex-lovers they hate, their child custody battles, their faith in hate of human beings.
People who freak out when an airplane crashes but get into their car and are ready to kill people every day barely worried who they run down. Even pedestrians.
And then you sort of get this attitude of "well, at least we don't go shopping at that shitty Walmart store". "And we don't live in shitty Palestine or Ukraine".
Like... don't you actually care that some kid is graduating High School in Ukraine in 2025 and has lost friends and family to the war? You think your life is better because people in Palestine are homeless and have a bleak future?
such low standards we have for human behavior and forgiveness and trying to understand compassion.
It is the CLERGY the YOGA teachers the Clergy of Religions - who are supposed to be teaching love.
These are POPULAR people who draw an audience.
Yet, they can't seem to market love and forgiveness, can they? The Middle East is full of "Holy Lands" and famous religion symbols and locations, but they are fighting and murdering each other over "God" all the time.
What low standards we have for these teachers. Why the hell can't people criticize the teachers of marriage and parenting more?
Russia's great psychological war is to convince NATO nations that hate is a better path for the future than compassion. When it boils down to it that's the basic #SurkovMindFuck is that misery and hate are the best thing for the future of Earth.
And people line up for it. Sure, year 2025, lets make the USA a nation of hate-filled choices and mass dehumanization. That attracts people. That's the Kremlin secret.
"Love isn't worth the effort" - the deep Russian secret.
RoundSparrow 🐦