Now try finding someone you find attractive and who also finds you attractive in return (it’s impossible).

I did a calculation once about my chances of finding a compatible long-term partner, based on the Drake Equation Drake Equation and many many assumptions. The numbers are not good: ~22 out of 8 billion.

As a married man, I gotta say you’re probably selling yourself short or have unrealistic expectations of a partner.

Remember that whoever you’re going to date is a person, not a robot. People are not quantifiable. One day they may be a dick, the next they may be pleasant. Some people are willing to compromise and others aren’t. Man, woman, or other, it doesn’t matter. If you’re not willing to compromise something, you’re never going to find someone.

Post pic or be assumed attractive

I’d rather be assumed attractive than to remove all doubt.

Go hangout at a Starbucks in a target if you want to meet women, they’re certainly not going to wander into your bedroom.

Cant drink coffee m8, even the smell makes me throw up