.DonutsNov 27, 2024

Maybe not poor at its core, but poor phrasing nonetheless: “just be yourself!”

What we should say is: stop trying to force yourself to fit in. You are enough as you are. Embrace your quirks, passions, and individuality without feeling the need to conform to what others expect. It’s not about “just being yourself” in a vacuum; it’s about freeing yourself from the pressure to mold into something you’re not.

The beauty of authenticity is in the courage to show up as you are, without apology.

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You still need to follow your society’s expected behaviors. Like showering or wearing shoes in public venues.

A big problem is people not picking up certain queues and being ostracized then continuing to follow “be yourself.” It’s a downward spiral.

  • Learn to fit in
  • Learn when and where “rules” can be bent/broken
  • Then be yourself
    • Nov 28, 2024 at 2:07pmWeb