I’m stumped at the simple task of trying to imagine what does imply to “feel like a man”.

100% guy here, real man feel is when others can rely on me, when I can help, that kind of stuff. Not “big car hurr durr bbq male superyorr” and the likes.

I agree with you, but there’s no reason bbq needs to catch these strays.

Even trucks are great if you’re using them to help people move stuff. No comment on the pavement princesses with bigger cabs than beds.