@duncandahusky I've always really wanted to know if people are judging me or if they have criticisms. Sometimes we live our lives oblivious and I'd always rather someone address something than stew up on it. I wish it was a more common case (and I say this knowing I often bury things that bother me).

Of course, I suspect you are saying this because the someone involved is already well know for not caring about such things.