Black joy isn't just us having fun. It's a literal weapon of survival. Seriously!

It sucks that Black people are so good at surviving fascist Americans that wish us harm. But we are. We're kind of the world's leading experts on this.๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฟโ€โ™‚๏ธ

I see lots of folks talking about how to prepare for what's coming. I'm not saying those preparations are bad, but a lot of it is US-style rugged individualism.

My advice: Find your community. Strengthen those bonds. And find your sources of joy!

@mekkaokereke the trans community doesn't have much intergenerational teaching, because the few (chosen) families we have are largely within generations and the few biological families are completely outside the community

Also, the trans community likes to throw each other under buses for ideological purity (or rampant misunderstanding of terminology drift), with near zero investment in redemption

So thank you for explaining this. Honestly I think the only learning the White trans community does about surviving fascism is what we learn from Black families and Black community

@saraislet @mekkaokereke I suspect AIDS unfortunately played a large role in cutting off newer generations from accumulated wisdom, as well, since we lost so many people who would have been queer elders.

(not only that, but the fact that LGBTQ people arise in every demographic means there's different challenges in forming communities together; we need to find each other somehow, then form community, and if that community isn't already there or we don't have a model of how to build it...)

Honestly I think the only learning the White trans community does about surviving fascism is what we learn from Black families and Black community๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ This is yet another reason why there are so many attempts to 'split' minority communities from forming bonds, I suspect. If they get us to embrace whiteness and reject actual humans, the only model for 'community' we have is fundamentally broken and based entirely on oppressive structures.

@aud @mekkaokereke @[email protected]

Gay men do have intergenerational communities. I'm late Gen X. I have benefited from socializing with older gay men who were out during the 1980s. Some things I learned from them:

1) We need community organizations like choruses, motorcycle clubs, book groups, and the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.

2) Running these organizations is work.

3) These organizations work best when they're fun.

@robhughes @aud @mekkaokereke

Of course, the layer on top of all of this, that nobody's talking about, is covid. For people like me, with existing or high risk of disability, point 1 is largely a non-starter.