“This means accepting that people I engage with, might see things very differently, and that maintaining those relationships and wishing them well them requires a level of tolerance I'm not sure I possess yet.” https://lucumr.pocoo.org/2024/11/8/what-if-my-tribe-is-wrong/
@mitsuhiko thank you for these thoughts, you've summarised well some of the things I'm struggling with here. I strongly believe most people are fundamentally good yet we see over half of the population make choices that seem to me obviously harmful to other good people.
Also "One of the things that I gradually learned is wishing others to succeed." - this is a really hard thing to be honest about and I completely empathise.