

@banaanihillo best for our case:
1. reach - almost everyone has a GitHub account and know how to work with it
2. CI performance. We do almost 200 CI jobs per commit. No other hosting sponsors us with that.
3. support. I get excellent support and have good communication with GitHub for whenever that is needed

@banaanihillo it seems you don't know the kids of today: they don't want to use email. Doing "email too" at the same level as over git forge is a high price to pay for the three users who prefer that. Plus self-hosting is a huge cost/timesink.
The CI performance is not a small thing. The sponsored jobs we run are worth thousands of USD/month.
@bagder yeah no don't get me wrong, i don't like email patches either, but i would still prefer it over the alternative of having to use microsoft's github ecosystem exclusively 
thank you for the discussion anyway, i really liked hearing your thoughts!