I've been thinking a lot about what a friend pointed out - that mixed gendered spaces often quickly become male-exclusive because men tend to have much higher tolerance for arsehole behaviour than women, so it only takes one dodgy person to destroy a community as all the women basically leave. Once such a community has heavy male bias it can hardly recover, and its lack of representation means it can hardly succeed in any social, cultural or technical aims. Rings true for the extraordinarily bad gender balance in free/open source software in the context of the Stallman report.
@yaxu one more reason that I'm a fan of a lot of spaces and parties being ABCD β˜ΊοΈπŸ‘

@deviantollam @yaxu

I don't think I've seen this abbreviation before, and trying to search for it only gives themed alphabet songs, haha. Do you mind clarifying?

@hallasurvivor @yaxu "anyone but cis dudes"

It cuts down on the problems in a given space SO much πŸ˜‰πŸ‘

Deviant Ollam (@[email protected])

@[email protected] @[email protected] "anyone but cis dudes" It cuts down on the problems in a given space SO much πŸ˜‰πŸ‘

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