Okay as you may know I have a pretty transphobic family.

And at the same time they keep saying things that amount to “i have gender dysphoria but whatever, its fine” and ive been assuming its becauss they want to make me feel like its “normal” to “feel that way” and that doing something about it isnt really necessary and should be avoided.

But now my goddamn GRANDMA somehow did that like ‘when i was a young b- girl i always wanted to be a boy and i cut my hair short and so on but i also had phases where i let it grow out and it was kinda bad’ (paraphrased).

It is successfully making me confused as to whether it is actually a thing most people experience and just hide, or if this is just an elaborate scheme - somehow. Or maybe they’re just all trans like what