I always find it peculiar and somewhat self-hating that humans are so averse and judgemental about reveling in our sexuality.

It’s a major part of who we all are, whether we choose to deny that or not. Cultures and world religions always run by monied interests would prefer we spend our time miserable collecting more for them as they live in decadent debauchery, and most of us have been too fucked in the head with sexual shame to be fixable, but humanity would have been so much happier if we spent less time growing gdp and more time fucking, especially in an age of birth control.

I think the issue is, when reveling in your sexuality, everyone involved must consent. It’s hard to say whether posting pics of you in revealing clothes is consent for old men to ogle or not. I’d say if you post it publicly, then it should be fine for said old men to respectfully ogle. But if said old men decide to comment something like, “would love to squirtle on those jigglypuffs” on the revealing image, we’re suddenly entering nonconsensual territory. So there’s a fine line and it’s easy to cross. Simply loving looking at boobs on the internet is fine; many women enjoy being admired. But if you take it any further, that’s when problems arise. Enjoy your sexuality responsibility, my friends. 💕

If you don’t want people spreading your images, wanking to your images, making crude comment about your images, oogling your images, etc etc. And I don’t mean just nudes, I mean any picture you post…

Then don’t post them online.

because once they hit the internet, in any capacity, you’ve lost all control of them, forever. They will still be there to be discovered when you are lying in a nursing home at 104 years old, Your descendants so far removed that they dont even know your name will still be at risk of stumbling upon them. People on the other side of the planet might use it in advertising or virtual sex dolls without you ever knowing.

You might not like it, you might not want it, you might not consent to it, but its still going to happen.

And if you want it to not happen, don’t post things online. Because not posting is the only control you’ll ever be able to exert over them.

Whatever you say, really don’t care. I don’t need some rando to tell me shit I already know.

“I don’t care what some rando has to say, now let me go back to posting on the site full of randos talking to eachother. BUT THEY BETTER NOT REPLY TO ME!”

Sorry, I should have said I don’t care to be mansplained about basic shit about how posting things on the internet works. You guys are really fucking obnoxious, it’s telling how badly my comment about consent set you all off.

I’ve literally been sexually assaulted and you set me off too. Maybe you’re just a fucking dumbass

Well, as someone who’s been through it, I’d really hope you of all people would understand the fucking importance of consent.

I’d also really think somebody that cares about people wouldn’t throw somebody’s trauma in their face, fwiw

I don’t appreciate people using their trauma as a trump card, fwiw