My 5 stages:

  • Gym
  • Better clothes
  • Improve apartment decorations
  • Better profile with good pictures
  • Come on, still?!
  • Have you tried step 0.5 Likeable personality?
    Yeah but then people say “if you wanna be likeable, just be yourself.” But that’s what I was doing before…
    Tailor yourself to be more likeable and approachable. Then slowly start showing your real self and if they stay, good. If not you either have a really bad personality or you just aren’t compatible.