FetLife is a Shit Show Right Now

https://lemmynsfw.com/post/15936331

FetLife is a Shit Show Right Now - Lemmy NSFW

At this instant in time, four women have had their accounts timed out for coming forward, with receipts about an infamous predator. So basically, consent violators have free reign to hunt, while victims will be silenced to the fullest extent. If you enjoy BDSM or any kinks or fetishes, but value your own safety, know that the administration at FetLife does not care about you. My recommendation is to stay away to protect yourself.

Are there any really viable alternatives out there?

I’m not sure.

If you happen to be on Fet, spread the word to get folks to muster here. It doesn’t feel safe chatting there.

I tried to use fet but it doesn’t make any sense to me so if anyone finds anything like it let me know too.
I haven’t been on there in years, it was about half people shilling paid accounts (cam girls) back then but I had some good come from it. Mostly good, actually. Every online space seems to devolve over time.