Anyone else struggle with (other people's) birthdays?

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Anyone else struggle with (other people's) birthdays? - Feddit UK

Like - what do I write in the card? What the hell do I get them? They come up so quickly as well.

I find a good quote about the kind of relationship we have (friendship, family, dating) that will make them all misty eyed, then I sign it and say something somewhat personal about our relationship. Cards are like the one social thing I’m apparently good at.
I have birthdays in my calendar! People seem to be pleasantly surprised that I remember their birthday