No wonder I hate religions

https://sopuli.xyz/post/16334812

No wonder I hate religions - Sopuli

So, after another crap week ending I was going to a KFC… I was hungry, afternoon and I didn’t had breakfast. After paying my order in that totem screen thing and waiting near the counter, a dude who was also waiting (I heard him talking about his order with the dude at the counter approaches me and tries to hand me a ticket that says Jesus is God or something similar… Wearing my buds, looking at my phone and without making eye contact I say “I don’t believe in those things dude”… “But he loves you, it’s important yadada” I wasn’t paying attention… Then I replied “dude, I DON’T CARE” Then the dude’s comeback: “you should care, especially when you’re dead”… Then I replied without thinking too much “everyone fucking dies, I don’t care” I was about to tell him to fuck off completely before I get actually angry but he backed off and took his order takeaway and left the place. So I leave the house like 1 DAY for the entire week just to eat something and I encounter this passive aggressive religious ass clown. Fuck religions and humanity in general. Especially the ones brainwashed to think handing tickets about their favourite wizards is going to do shit for them.

Sorry to hear that this was able to bother you so much. You must be really exhausted.
I don’t think thats the problem… Not at all.
It’s perhaps the cause why this impact him so much. The more stressed you are, the bigger the impact of otherwise irrelevant stuff.
Its not irrelevant, people should be minding their own business and not intrude other peoples personal space, especially not on religious basis.
You go in public, people are going to talk to you, and they’ll do it about whatever is on their minds. That’s sorta something you gotta accept and find a way to deal with if you’re not going to become a complete hermit, which it sounds like this guy is well on his way to doing if this was his only trip out of the house in a week. That’s not healthy.

Thats not how it works. And you don’t get to judge others about how much social interaction they want or are ok with. You are literally just like the person that obnoxiously tries to put their religion on others.

You don’t get to just speak to people that are obviously not fine with it. In other countries you would get a bloody nose for that, and rightfully so.

Well then consider me even further evidence that it’s gonna happen either way. You might get a bloody nose for telling someone to bugger off in those same countries, so take your chances or learn to live with it.

You’re not gonna control how others act, so you might as well try to control how you do.

man, people are so irrational about this…

“dont talk to me, no talking in public, you’re the problem waaaah!”

“you cant control what others do”

“shut up stop talking to me! id give you a bloody nose! you must be american! you suck!!”

and they actually have a positive vote ratio… the fucking shut-ins on social media are so ridiculous. enjoy your misery, folks… the world ain’t changing to suit your whims and make us all even more isolated just because you dont like what some people have to say… but by all means, keep complaining.

Nice vote manipulation again.

You people are the problem. Mind your own fucking business.

The neurotypical extroverts have no consideration for the struggles of literally everyone who isn’t exactly like them.

Who said I was neurotypical? Who said I was an extrovert? And I hope your comment doesn’t imply that “introverts” understand other people any better than people who… actually talk to others… that would be absurd. People who understand other people don’t go on wild presumptuous rants based on their idea of a person based on a few snippets of text or because they heard someone talked to a person in KFC!! The fact the you folks here seem to think that there’s just a broad swathe of the population who are “the problem” (and you easily cram us into your “problem” box if you feel the tension of an unfamiliar idea) … that behavior is really the problem.

Those of you supporting that jerk in the comments are honestly exactly like the Jesus freak in KFC. It’s actually mind-blowing how close the parallel is. “You don’t think the same as me? Go to hell!” It’s not like we’re saying you have to act a certain way, not like you are to us. Just as Please_Do_Not said: if you wanna live that way then I hope you can find a way to enjoy life but it doesn’t seem like you are. You’re gonna encounter this shit no matter what so it’s probably better to learn how to deal with it than to rage about it, or berate others who dare to suggest that we need not make ourselves miserable.

Man, you claim to work in mental health somewhere (lemm.ee/comment/14243705) and then talk shit like that wow.

How can someone working in mental health (or claiming to do so, i don’t question that however) be so insensitive towards other peoples feelings or, other cultures, in most of the world its absolutely not normal to just talk to strangers especially not about religion or politics or similar topics. Thats a north American thing only basically.

what's a polite way to reject a picture with a very thankful patient who was under your care? - lemm.ee

I have a problem with establishing boundaries. I’m a private person. That’s very often misinterpreted as being arrogant and feeling superior to others. I’m not, I just wish to be left alone, but people still feel disrespected and it’s tiring to be constantly explaining yourself. And I don’t understand why I have to explain myself constantly. This very emotional and thankful patient wanted a picture with me and I stupidly agreed. He also wanted my phone number (I gave him a false one) to invite me to have lunch, as he celebrated his 70th birthday. I don’t believe it was sexual or romantic, because he is married, his wife was there when he extended the invitation and took the picture and he also wanted to invite the whole unit. I acted like this because it was the easiest way to get him to leave the hospital and free the room but also because I didn’t want to cause a scene. What could I do next time?

You can shove your personal attacks about my background up your arse. You don’t know me as an actual person. How am I supposed to respond to this shit without sounding like an arrogant jagoff? This isn’t conducive to anything productive. You are just venting online and trying to make moral judgments around it. If I told you that I’ve literally been around the world, lived in multiple countries, speak multiple languages, and have gotten to know people from dozens of different cultures, and that if you really avoid people so much then you ““introverts”” probably are a lot less culturally aware than you think – how are you going to react? Is that going to change your mind? Are you gonna say “Whoops I guess you are pretty culturally aware!” Is that going to make my perspective any more valid to you? That maybe, just maybe, you are part of the problem here? No, of course not. You have already picked your good/evil, right/wrong, and you set yourself up to dismiss me as someone who “just doesn’t get it” (get why I’m right of course).

Maybe, just maybe, the fact that this seems to happen wherever OP lives suggests that it is culturally appropriate there? Or are you using “culture” as a trojan horse for “whatever I personally like to do”? And the people in your “culture” are just the people who like/dislike the things you do? Can you see how that might undermine actual cultural difference? Probably not, because apparently you only care about raging online - not a good faith discussion on cultural differences in social interactions.

And all this talk of cultural difference just to hammer the point that people shouldn’t act the way that you don’t like them to act! How the fuck do you think I’M the one being closed-minded and culturally insensitive here? You are absolutely fucking ridiculous. And to dredge through my background and make personal attacks based on things I have said in good faith to others? Seriously, go fuck yourself.