As always - if you’re saying a word is comparable to the n-word, and you are able to use your word in public as a non-black person, it’s not like the n-word

Frankly that’s something I do not understand. Why this single specific word? We have dozens of terrible offensive words. Why this specific one is considered so bad we cannot even talk about it directly, even when merely discussing it? I would think discussing it and not directing it at someone would be pretty reasonable. As with every single other word.

Is one of the other words associated with 200 years of chattel slavery?

Negro is pretty gosh darn close, but I guess it’s just not quite as derogatory.

To my non-American ears “negro” sounds far worse actually. Probably because of how rare it is in comparison.