NobodyJul 31, 2024

Why you haven't found your significant other?

https://feddit.org/post/1457367

Why you haven't found your significant other? - feddit.org

Basically the sister question of that other post here… I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money or almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.

Show threadHarmoniousJul 31, 2024
Been too busy with university and work to dedicate time to finding someone. Plus, I’ve been broke for a long time so no cash to hang out and do stuff. Now, I’m living at home helping my mom and dad now that both of them don’t work due to my dad having a condition and my mom helping him. So, yeah, got no time, money, or energy to bother looking.
Show threadNobody
I only did middle school and I wonder if my life would had been “better” if I went to college. I’m too dumb and weird for it, so I don’t see the point. Never had a dream or a direction as an adult so it doesn’t make sense to me.
Jul 31, 2024 at 9:15pmWeb
Show threadjo3jo3Jul 31, 2024
Your mind is broken. Fix that shit. Get positive. Find a dream and direction, and go for it with everything you’ve got. Someone will see that passion and follow you. But you’ve really got to fix your mind, stop thinking so negatively about yourself. Positive self talk only. You are what you think, that shit becomes your reality. So think positive, dream up something big, and go for it. You only get to live this life once, don’t just sit there feeling bad for yourself, make this ride as interesting as you can for yourself, you are in control of it.
Show threadNobodyJul 31, 2024
I really don’t see it, I’ve never been positive, is not my nature. And I’ve suffered enough.
Show threadjo3jo3Aug 1, 2024
Where is the suffering? It’s in your mind. I told you, get your mind right. Be the hero of your own movie…Haven’t you ever seen that video? Go search it in YouTube, be the hero of your own movie. Choose the one that’s just a couple minutes long. Watch it. And find another, search Arnold Schwarzenegger you can do it gym motivation. Watch those two videos. Reprogram your mind, it’s broken now. All your bad thoughts are just making your reality, it becomes true, you believe it. So change your thoughts, change your mind, and your life will start to change around you. It’s just a ride. Or a game. It’s just a fucking sandbox. Enjoy the ride. Have a good time. Dream big. Go big. Stop just wasting the one go around you get feeling bad for yourself. Envision what you want in this life, and then go get it. And enjoy the ride. It’s not that hard. Just get the mind right because it’s all coming from there.
Show threadNobodyAug 1, 2024
I’ve seen all those videos, I grew up with Arnold movies FFS, I’m not him. I don’t have his qualities, I really don’t. And fuck Joe Rogan, he mocks the things i still like.
Show threadjo3jo3Aug 1, 2024
Listen to what I said. Reread everything you wrote. It’s in your mind. Stop being defeated. You’re finding an excuse for everything. Knock it off. Nobody can pull you out of your shit negative way of thinking but yourself. You’re wasting time. Your choice, listen to the advice everyone gave you, or drown in that fucking puddle you’re wasting away in. Your choice.
Show threadNobodyAug 1, 2024
I have. 4 times, I am not finding excuses, just realise that not everyone is like you and not everyone is as lucky as you.
Show threadjo3jo3Aug 1, 2024
You’re right. Just give up.
Show threadNobodyAug 1, 2024
Thank you for understanding.
Show threadjo3jo3Aug 1, 2024
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Show threadNobodyAug 1, 2024
I hate that guy.