I love syncthing, its basically like a personal P2P cloud thats beginner friendly.
It automatically syncs selected folders between any number of devices, but you need to have it installed on both devices.
I have this set up to always sync my pictures, music and password vaults between my devices.
f-droid.org/en/…/com.nutomic.syncthingandroid/
If you want to just transfer files and not keep them synchronized then i would recommend the file manager “Material Files” instead.
It comes with a built in FTP server that you can use to access your phone over the local network from your PC.
f-droid.org/en/…/me.zhanghai.android.files/
Both are available on F-Droid and Google Play, but i recommend getting F-Droid if you dont have it yet.
Its a great alternative store for open source apps.
f-droid.org/en/
What OS do you have installed on your desktop/laptop?