The plan has been to get a heavy duty VESA mount and put up my oldish 49” monitor. Plan worked but…
... I forgot two things: 1. How ridiculously large this monitor is. 2. How terrible VA looks on Mac.
I really don't want to spend the $$$ on another 38" monitor but seems like the least worst choice (don't want to spend $2k on the Dell 6k either).
I ended up ordering the Dell refurb. It came today but the built in web camera got smashed up in shipping (though seems to be functional). Tried to do a replacement but they said it was out of stock (which I don't thinks is true), so back it goes.
Really disappointed, I'd consider re-ordering but the packing job was so bad I'm not willing to risk it, no idea why they didn't send it in with the original box.
The monitor itself is super nice, like an extra large iMac 27" 5k, it’s super sharp.
This weekend I'm trying out the cheapest 4k 32" IPS monitor on Amazon. It's obviously noticeably fuzzier than the Dell 6k, but I think probably something I can live with (specially at < 1/6th the price).
The biggest problem is the lack of factory calibration (or maybe they just did a bad job of it), normally wouldn't be an issue for me but I can't find my calibrator anywhere.
https://www.amazon.com/SCEPTRE-32-inch-DisplayPort-Speakers-U325W-UPT/dp/B0CC6RTL44