The plan has been to get a heavy duty VESA mount and put up my oldish 49” monitor. Plan worked but…
... I forgot two things: 1. How ridiculously large this monitor is. 2. How terrible VA looks on Mac.
I really don't want to spend the $$$ on another 38" monitor but seems like the least worst choice (don't want to spend $2k on the Dell 6k either).
I ended up ordering the Dell refurb. It came today but the built in web camera got smashed up in shipping (though seems to be functional). Tried to do a replacement but they said it was out of stock (which I don't thinks is true), so back it goes.
Really disappointed, I'd consider re-ordering but the packing job was so bad I'm not willing to risk it, no idea why they didn't send it in with the original box.
The monitor itself is super nice, like an extra large iMac 27" 5k, it’s super sharp.
@paul I was not impressed by the packaging and guess what: the camera was dinged.
But seems ok enough I’ll probably keep it.