Is there a chat/dating app that isn't complete shit and pay wall restricted?

https://lemmy.world/post/17125238

Is there a chat/dating app that isn't complete shit and pay wall restricted? - Lemmy.World

Forgot to mention, apps that at least has some following in Europe.

Fetlife can get you laid
Can’t find an app with that name
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